The jack in that looks like it has the functionality I am trying for. I'll see if I can massage it into the form I want. After that, see if I can get rid of the schematic view. Because of the switch in the jack, yours actually needs a minimal schematic view, though it could be simplified to a SPST switch.
In mine, it is all just wire (bus) connections, so (like breadboard) it does not really need a schematic view. At least not IF the bus connections feed through to create the needed rats nest wires when something is connected. Which is where the problem started. Functionally, I could create a schematic view, but it would not actually mean anything. Forcing schematic wires to route through a block is not nice. Since this needs bus connections, could not even use subparts to break up the block.
I'll post (in a bit) another version with an icon that will better show the mechanical layout intended. Gone exploring.